Then Thursday was our day off, we went to 4 a.m.
adoration and mass and then spent the day at the beach and visited the craft
market.
On Friday and Saturday we ran “summer school” at My
Father’s House and loved it! We have
such an awesome group of kids there that surprise us with their knowledge every
day.
Last week was
great because we got to see spend a lot of our time with the short term group
because we rode on their bus with them. We
also got to hang out as a “Medium Term” group quite often this week: Mandy,
Kathryn, Charcey, Ben, and Dominic.
We’ve all really bonded, here’s a pic of our happy blended family with
Natalia as our mom J (she is the amazing director of
missions and had us over for dinner both Friday and Saturday night).
We met Dominic two weeks ago, and we’ve had fun with
him ever since! We welcomed Ben (far left) last
Saturday, he’s an old pro, he volunteered with MSC for a year in the past! And then Charcey joined us last Sunday J! We’ve had so much fun together and in a short
period of time have become really close!
Dominic had to leave Saturday so we had a get together Friday evening
before he left, and we miss him already!
Every week
there is a short term group that stays for a week and primarily they do
physical labor and play with the kids from different apostolates. Each group we’ve met have all been very
different but awesome and it’s been an amazing experience to meet so many new
people from all over (we’ve had Pittsburg, Atlanta, New York, and now South
Carolina). We were really bummed we
didn’t get to say goodbye to our short term group this week because they were
in mass before we left for work, but we came home from work to a table full of goodies
and a really sweet note from all of them!
I’m excited to keep in touch with them and possibly look for advice from
them if I want to look into organizing a short term group (hint hint if anyone
is interested J). And then another short term group
started with us on Saturday, a really big group of 22 this week!
On Sunday we walked with 15 kids to the church down
the street. Their mass is so wonderful
(a little on the long side – this week was 1.5 hours, last week was 2.5 hours),
I’ve never seen a greater demonstration of faith as seeing the people who live
in this extremely poor community come together in their Sunday best to sing
their thanksgiving.
After mass Mandy, Kathryn, Ben, and I got a taxi
drive up to “Strawberry Hills”. It is a
hotel and spa on top of the mountain and honestly one of the most peaceful and
beautiful places I’ve ever been (I took 82 pictures there!). It was so relaxing and nice to feel
refreshed!
We came home and I was
excited to hang out with the kids from Sophie’s because it’s been such a busy
week we’ve barely seen them. I really
enjoyed just sitting with them and feeding them dinner. I was able to sit with one of the kids and
look at a coloring book with him and I couldn’t get over how he was trying to
use full sentences to have a conversation with me about the pictures (if you’ve
ever taught a kid with special needs you can understanding how special moments
like these are!). Then one of the
workers arrived who is one of the kindest and most devoted men I’ve ever
met, some nights he comes in just to
help feed the kids dinner even if he isn’t on security duty that night. The child I was sitting with yelled “My
Peter!” and went running to him as soon as he saw him. Then the two of them went hunting for frogs
together because that was the picture we were looking at J,
what an awesome father figure for these kids!
I got to listen to them sing their nighttime songs and say good night to
all of them, which made my day!
Then the perfect ending to a great day was having
the privilege of watching an old video that Ben took of a current
resident. This resident is one of the
most amazing men I’ve met. He is in his
late 30’s and lays in a wheelchair that is actually an old lawn chair rigged
with wheels. I’ve only spoken to him for
a few short minutes but it is quickly apparent that there is something truly
special about him. If you didn’t know
any better you would think he just lays there all day, can’t speak, and just
fades into the background. But if you
take the time to speak to him you’ll never be the same. I learned so much in the five minute
interview that Ben showed us. The
resident explained that he is so grateful for everything that he has (mind you
he has been completely abandoned by all family members, has very little control
over the activities he participates in on a daily basis, and he has no
possessions to his name), but he has his faith.
He eloquently explains that he is one of the lucky ones because he can
tell people what he wants and he can tell someone if he doesn’t feel well. He
expressed his sorrow for his friends at his apostolate that can’t speak and who
become frustrated and then act out because they can’t communicate. He explained that he doesn’t like if there is
tension in the room and just wants everyone to get along. He was asked if he needed anything else from
Mustard Seed and his response was that there is nothing that he needs because
if there is no one there for him to talk to he can always talk to Jesus; and
Jesus understands everything he needs!
He then proceeded to explain that everyone at his apostolate is his
friend. I wish I could share this video
with you so that you could see what I mean but take my word it is truly amazing
the wisdom, love, faith, and understanding that this resident conveys. He made me think about all the blessings I
have in my life that I take for granted.
The other day he told me it was going to be a great day because they
were going to move his chair so he could spend some time under a tree, can you
imagine that sense of gratitude?! There are many days where I feel like I'm not doing enough because we're just assisting where needed and the resources and knowledge in a third world country are so limited. I've had some moments where I've felt truly helpless. But my lovely sister Ali wrote a quote in a card for me and I love it: “I am only one, but I am one. I cannot do everything, but I can do something. And I will not let what I cannot do interfere with what I can do” – Edward Everett Hale. Definitely keeping this in mind!
I’ve learned so much from these residents and I will never and can never forget the amazing experiences that I’ve had! As you all know my parents are awesome and my dad sent me a song the other day that describes the experience very accurately.
Thanks for taking the time to check in! I'm going to try to blog more often, but our internet is very sporadic so I'll try my best! I miss everyone and I appreciate all of your
support!
Love, Christina
Christina, I love your blog! Glad you enjoyed the sweets... we were bummed to not say goodbye to you also, but we loved getting to hang out with you guys during our week in Jamaica!
ReplyDeleteAnd I will make you a deal -- I will give you advice on leading a team if you give me advice on the "medium term" volunteer thing... still mulling that over....
peace and blessings! looking fw to reading more of your posts.
andrea
"OneLove"
Hi Christina,
ReplyDeleteI second Andrea's comment, glad you enjoyed the sweets as well! Sad we didn't say goodbye properly but the note you guys left warmed out hearts!
I'm enjoying your blog with a bittersweet feeling because it makes me wish I was there still. God bless you.
One Love,
Blanca
Hi Andrea and Blanca! I'm still getting the hang of this blog and just saw your comments :). We had so much fun with you guys, still wearing your bracelet! We are home now but I miss Jamaica more everyday. I'd love to chat about what it was like being a medium term, you guys would love it! And I would love to know more about short term groups, I think it would be so much fun! Thanks again for all the goodies you left we missed you guys (I've been looking through my pictures constantly and I love the ones from when we hung out with your group)! Keep in touch!
ReplyDelete~ Christina